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Since my breast cancer diagnosis on June 9, 2008, I have spent a fairly decent amount of time wondering "why me?" I would like to hear from you about your cancer stories. Let's create a dialogue of learning, sharing and hope.

Sunday, May 10, 2009

Radiation Graduation

How can something so unpleasant be pleasant? That was my experience with radiation. As you may have seen in my column, I thought radiation was the toughest of all of the breast cancer therapies. For me, it was the one therapy that made me think daily about my cancer diagnosis. After the technologists set you up on the table, the four-food lead door closes and you're on the table alone in your own thoughts.
On Thursday, I received my certificate of completion on the Varian Linear Accelerator, a machine that treated me 30 times, the last seven with cone therapy that lasted a minute. The previous 23 treatments covered five parts of my chest and armpit area and caused a very big sunburn. I am now peeling under my arm and it's uncomfortable.
It didn't help that in the course of things that I came down with my annual spring case of bronchitis. The infection went away after a week of antibiotics, but I'm still coughing and my chest is still wheezing. Not pleasant.
But what made my radiation therapy pleasant were the technologists who treated me, Roseann Perito and Shalene Neeman, and others who popped in to assist from time to time. As I've said in my columns, I have been blessed to have had many kind and caring medical professionals helping me during my breast cancer treatment. I don't know how they do it, but all the doctors, nurses and technicians I have come across are so caring and compassionate. What jobs they do.
Happy Mother's Day, all.

Sunday, April 5, 2009

Spring/Lent

Folks,
I've been so bogged down with work for the Register and for the Miss Connecticut Scholarship Program, my volunteer organization, that I haven't had time to check in. Actually, I think that I just can't do as much any more. My mother tells me to slow down...AAAAAHHHH!! No time for that!
Anyhow, I started radiation a week and a half ago. My NuBoob skin is already pink. I did an interview for my column the other day and that woman's breast was brownish-red. Guess I have that to look forward to. So far, radiation isn't that bad but you have to go each weekday. It's a constant reminder that you have cancer.
Chat soon,
Ann

Tuesday, March 10, 2009

Ramblings

Hello Folks,
Haven't been on here in a while. Thought I'd promote some of my upcoming columns.
This week, I'm talking to Josephine DelVecchio, widow of the late Thomas DelVecchio of North Haven. Tom died on March 1, 2008, from lung cancer. Josephine has organized a March 28 fundraiser at Laurel View Country Club in Hamden. Proceeds will benefit The V Foundation, an organization that's raised more than $80 million for cancer research in 16 years. I'll also be promoting Nina Pane Sanseverino's March 21 fundraiser and tribute to her mother, the late Neapolitan songstress Giussepina Pane.
On March 22, I'll be sharing the inspirations of Sister Maureen Fitzgerald, the principal of St. Rita School in Hamden, who recently returned from a trip to Reynosa, Mexico with students and parents from Sacred Heart Academy in Hamden. They built two houses for impoverished people in Reynosa and will be sharing their life-changing experience with you.
In the future, I'll be speaking to researchers in our area about strides they're making in cancer research. Also on tap is an interview with a very brave young woman who has been suffering with FOP.

Saturday, February 14, 2009

Happy Valentine's Day

Dear Readers,
Happy Valentine's Day! Bob and I will truly be celebrating tonight as I got good news from my doctor yesterday. She said that my breast area is now cancer-free following its removal on March 4. I'll be writing about my mastectomy experience in Feb. 22's Register Living section.
Thanks for all your support and prayers.
Ann

Monday, February 2, 2009

Post No. 4

Hi Folks,
I hope that by the time I get to the operating room on Wednesday I will be calm and at peace. I have been very anxious about this surgery, primarily related to how freaked out I was in the recovery room after the last surgery. My surgeon said that I have no reason to worry about anesthesia or other surgery-related issues.
So, I'm going to spend the next 48 hours praying and accepting the prayers that all of you are bestowing on me.
Ann

Post No. 3

Just to continue, I have a ton of work-related things to finish before surgery on Wednesday. Did most of the house-related stuff, though I need to still vaccuum and dust. Ugh.

Getting Ready No. 2

Hi Folks,
I have a lot of support connected to getting better, and I really appreciate it.
I am very nervous about my pending surgery. I talk to my surgeon today and she said I have nothing to worry about!
More later.
Ann